What is domestic violence?

Domestic Abuse: Breaking the Silence
 

At Buckinghamshire New University, we are committed to addressing the issue of domestic abuse and providing support to those affected. Domestic abuse is a serious concern that affects individuals of all genders, ages, and backgrounds. We aim to create a safe and inclusive environment where individuals can report incidents, seek assistance, and find the support they need to break free from the cycle of abuse. Here's what you need to know about domestic abuse:

Understanding Domestic Abuse:
Domestic abuse encompasses a range of abusive behaviours that occur within intimate relationships. It involves the exertion of power and control by one partner over the other through various forms of abuse. It is essential to recognise that domestic abuse is never acceptable, and everyone deserves to live in a safe and respectful environment.
 

Types of Domestic Abuse:
 

Physical Abuse: Physical abuse involves the use of physical force that causes harm or injury to a partner. It can include hitting, punching, slapping, kicking, choking, or any other form of physical aggression.
 

Emotional Abuse: Emotional abuse is characterised by the manipulation, intimidation, and degradation of a partner's emotional well-being. It can involve constant criticism, humiliation, controlling behaviour, threats, and verbal assaults that undermine the victim's self-worth and autonomy.
 

Sexual Abuse: Sexual abuse refers to any non-consensual sexual activity or unwanted sexual advances within an intimate relationship. It includes coerced sexual acts, forced intercourse, or any form of sexual exploitation.

Financial Abuse: Financial abuse involves the control and manipulation of a partner's financial resources. It may include restricting access to money, withholding financial support, sabotaging employment opportunities, or incurring debt in the victim's name without their consent.

Digital Abuse: In today's digital age, domestic abuse can extend to online platforms. Digital abuse involves the use of technology to intimidate, harass, monitor, or control a partner. This can include stalking, constant monitoring of online activities, spreading malicious rumours, or unauthorised sharing of private information.
 

Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse:
Perpetrators of domestic abuse can be individuals from various backgrounds and relationships. It is important to understand that anyone can be a perpetrator, regardless of gender or social status. Perpetrators can include:

Intimate Partners: This refers to current or former spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, or romantic partners who engage in abusive behaviours within the relationship.

Family Members: Domestic abuse can occur between family members, such as parents, siblings, or adult children, where one person exercises power and control over others in the household.

Same-Sex Relationships: Domestic abuse can also occur in same-sex relationships, where one partner abuses the other using similar tactics of power and control.

Caregivers or Guardians: Perpetrators can include caregivers or guardians responsible for the care and well-being of vulnerable individuals, such as children, elderly family members, or individuals with disabilities.
 

Acquaintances: Domestic abuse can occur between individuals who are not in a romantic relationship but have a personal connection, such as friends, neighbours, or cohabitants.
 

Reporting and Seeking Support:
At Buckinghamshire New University, we encourage individuals who have experienced domestic abuse to report incidents and seek support. Our confidential reporting system allows you to disclose your experience anonymously or request support from a dedicated advisor. We provide a safe and non-judgmental environment where you can access resources, counselling services, and legal assistance to help you navigate through the challenges.

Immediate Safety:
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger or at risk of harm due to domestic abuse, please prioritise your safety. Contact emergency services immediately by dialling 999 (or 112 from a mobile phone). If possible, find a safe place and avoid confronting the abuser alone.
 

Breaking the Cycle:
Breaking free from domestic abuse is a courageous step towards reclaiming your life and well-being.